{"id":123,"date":"2009-05-27T15:27:34","date_gmt":"2009-05-27T15:27:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sallyfranklinchristie.com\/wp\/?p=123"},"modified":"2009-05-27T15:28:25","modified_gmt":"2009-05-27T15:28:25","slug":"you-can-get-married-wait-no-you-cant-but-wait","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/sallyfranklinchristie.com\/wp\/you-can-get-married-wait-no-you-cant-but-wait\/","title":{"rendered":"You Can Get Married &#8211; Wait &#8211; No, You Can&#8217;t &#8211; But Wait"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In Montana, an ordained minister can perform a wedding ceremony for any couple in possession of a state issued marriage license.<\/p>\n<p>The clerk of courts issues the license according to laws set by the state. If an American woman and a man from Kenya have their paperwork done, the clerk will approve the marriage, give them some paperwork and an ordained minister will marry them. If a woman in prison doing life for murder wants to marry someone from a far reaching town and the clerk okays the paperwork, this couple can be married. If a young woman over the age of consent is determined to marry a 57 year old man, there is nothing to stop her. There is no intervention forbidding a heterosexual to homosexual marriage from taking place.<\/p>\n<p>However, as I understand the law in Montana, it may have changed and that is why I have a comment section, if a young lady is interested in marriage to someone who used to be her stepparent and this stepparent once took on roles of discipline and guidance, she cannot marry this man. I have no clue about how the clerk of courts discovers this previous blended family relationship. Another case where marriage in Montana cannot take place is a gender issue.<\/p>\n<p>Montana took a vote and let people who were registered to vote, define marriage as being between one man and one woman. These registered voters are mostly people who already had the right to be married, divorced, remarried and were not going to be effected by either choice. Another segment of the voting population enjoys a \u2018friends with benefits\u2019 package and still others are engaged and living with their partners with no wedding date on the calendar.<\/p>\n<p>Montana is a no-fault divorce state. There is nothing but a blood test for rubella, a birth certificate, divorce papers and a little bit of money stopping the mass murderer from enjoying the bonds of Holy Matrimony. Age disparity is not an issue either. Race is no problem and country of origin doesn\u2019t raise much of an eye-brow either.<\/p>\n<p>The States are letting everyone registered to vote make laws prohibiting whole classes of people from making the same good and bad choices the murderer and the May \u2013 December couple.<\/p>\n<p>I can only imagine how confusing it is to live in a state that gives rights and takes them back. My job is easy here, if the couple has a license issued by the state, I can marry them, if not, I can do a commitment ceremony but the couple will not have all of the rights, protections and privileges that come with the license. As an ordained minister, my hands are not tied by a Higher Power, my hands are tied by the voters.<\/p>\n<p>I know this is a hot topic. All I ask is that any comments on this subject be written with care. Comments will be moderated on this subject.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I can only imagine how confusing it is to live in a state that gives rights and takes them back. My job is easy here, if the couple has a license issued by the state, I can marry them, if not, I can do a commitment ceremony but the couple will not have all of the rights, protections and privileges that come with the license. 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